Cambodia 2011 – HFH Khmer Harvest Build: Day 5, November 19

The last day of the build was to be an emotional one. The foci of the teams were to finish up small projects, clean the home space, decorate the front of the house as a part of the welcoming, and participate in the ribbon cutting ceremony with the family. Post-ribbon cutting, there was a closing ceremony with speeches, thank you’s, and some entertainment.

I’ve included a link to a video shot by a New Zealander which gives you a sense of the day.

Of course the best part was meeting the entire family who would be moving into the house along with extended family members. Our family was a couple with their two children, ages 9 and 2. The lady who took a liking to me was there along with some additional grandchildren.

The ribbon cutting ceremony totally caught me by surprise. Each of my team members and i were allowed to make one small cut in the ribbon with the owners who made the final cut. Cutting the ribbon, I got totally teary, choked up, and started to cry. What a moment for that family! All I could think of was ‘they have a house’ and how important that was in their lives. It was the start of more teariness for much of the team. Once officially in the house, there was dancing, singing, and a definite sense of joy. Mostly joy…the 2-year old, who I suspect had never seen a white person, started to bawl every time one of us went near him. I really think it was the Caucasian factor. The look on that child’s face was priceless. They’d take him out of the room, he’d stop crying, back into the room, one look and the tears began all over again.

The family was also very emotional. Through a translator, the lady had some lovely sentiments. The mother kept touching me. As i was standing there readying to leave the family, the mother and daughter came to me with a translator. Through the translator, she said that i was to be called the first sister of her daughter. I don’t know the meaning of this exactly, but I took it as something of honour. Nekane, my roommate, had a similar experience, being called the first sister of the owner’s daughter.

It was a meaningful day. A day of pride and joy. I thought about the future of that family. My optimistic self wants great things for them and knows that the housing will change so much for them. Along the way, in small and big ways, I hope that each of the volunteers were changed. I personally feel some kind of shift internally. I don’t know how big it is, but at minimum I have a changed perspective about poverty. I only hope that my changed perspective will make a difference.

It already has….on January 10th, I was to return to Canada. I’ve decided to not come back and to extend my time away so as to participate on another HFH build and will return in March. This build will be in Chetwan, Nepal in mid-February. It will be a 2-week build. I am planning on fundraising my HFH donation/fee (which pays for build materials and my accommodation during the build). I’m really hoping that friends and family will be able to support me in this endeavour. Baring any difficulties in setting up visas from over here, I will go. Stay tuned…..

Baci, Sonya

Cambodia 2011 – HFH Khmer Harvest Build: Day 4, November 18

On Day 4, it was really amazing to see all of the progress being made on the houses. At this point, the walls were as high as they were going to get. It was time to raise high the roof beam (JD Salinger)!

At the start of the project, I believe that the volunteers were to get up high and install the roof. This didn’t happen, which I think was a good thing. The roof looked pretty tricky and judging from the razor thin edges of the metal composite, it could have resulted in some serious cuts.

The Cambodian tradesmen ended up doing all of the installing. Those guys were incredible workers and did all of their work in flip-flops. I have decided that Havaianas are the official “workboot’ of Cambodians. These guys spent the entire week working in them. No steel-toed work boots for them! One wrong drop of a 20-30 pound brick and kaput goes a foot. Anyway, it was amazing to watch them work from below and on top of the scaffolding. Despite their footwear of choice, the were crouching and walking on the metal roof beams as assuredly as I was in my shoes on solid ground.

At ground level, we were all engaged in various tasks – cleaning mortar off of the walls, repairing and filling in the gaps of mortar, painting, and building the front door entry steps.

As things were getting done, others went to the farm and pitched in at other areas. I went back to the brick factory, carting and making bricks. Again, sweaty girl.

On this particular day, it was a mix of energy. On the one hand, a sense of harriedness to get things done for the families and on the other, a sense of things starting to wind down in the project. Regardless of the energy one was feeling, I think there was a sense of accomplishment behind it and anticipation of meeting the family.

The mother of the daughter whose family would have the house was on site. We all initially thought that she was the owner and it wasn’t until the next day that we figured this out. In any event, she was present and so lovely. I get teary recalling this. She didn’t speak English, and my Khmer is rather poor, but beyond words at a deeper level, there was the understanding of incredible gratitude. One didn’t need words to feel this. She seemed to take a liking to me. I was hanging out in the back of the house when she showed up. It was like she imprinted on me as ducklings would to their mama. She kept touching me – my face, my arms, and when I was sweaty, she wiped my brow. It was sweet. A couple of us had our cameras (for me the iPhone) and she kept wanting pictures of herself with me and others. You could see she was emotional. I thought she was the would-be-owner and all along, she was a mother who was feeling the emotions of her daughter, son-in-law, and 2 grandchildren becoming homeowners. A family who would finally have decent and safe shelter and hopefully the opportunity to break some of the poverty. That’s what housing does people. The palpable emotion of what was within me and what was apparent in the mother was a sign of what was to come. I was not really in tune with how much emotion (for me anyway) there was and would be taken by surprise the next day.

While the families will have a small mortgage and will pay off part of their house through sweat equity through giving back to HFH, it will help to free them up to focus on other things.

Im going to switch things up a bit and stand up on a soapbox. I don’t mean to offend anyone, for these are my personal observations of my time here thus far. Imagine if you lacked housing, medical care, clean water, a clean society without a lot of trash in your environment, toilets and plumbing, proper roads and other important infrastructure, food, or a sustainable income…..

If anything, this project has really resulted in an altered perspective of what poverty entails in a third world country, a perspective I lacked if I am going to be truthful about this. There have been moments on this trip where I have been taken aback and shocked by what I have seen. Of course, I will never fully understand what poverty is because I’m not in this predicament, but it has raised the bar of my own consciousness as to what I have, and what people here don’t have. The sense of consumerism and entitlement in western society is shameful. I’m part of this and I’m worried about returning and stepping back into that. I’m worried about my reactions to people who whine. I only hope that I can retain in my mind’s eye what it is like here and use that to be selective about what I whine about. For example, my loss of pictures on my iPhone. Enough said….

Cambodia 2011 – HFH Khmer Harvest Build: A Photo Montage of Days 1-3

I have a few photos to post from the build. Thanks so, so much to Sherwood Kirk (Kansas) and Jordan Samuelson (Seattle) who graciously agreed to share their photos. They were team members of mine. The photos are an assortment of team members, Cambodian tradespersons, children on the housing site, the farm and surrounding countryside. More will be added as others share. Thanks again! I so wanted to share pictures that I had taken and these ones are a gift. Enjoy!20111129-230848.jpg20111129-230914.jpg20111129-230928.jpg20111129-230949.jpg20111129-231009.jpg20111129-230959.jpg20111129-231035.jpg20111129-231042.jpg20111129-231057.jpg20111129-231112.jpg20111129-231122.jpg20111129-231131.jpg20111129-231215.jpg

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Cambodia 2011 – HFH Khmer Harvest Build: Day 3, November 17

Hey Folks:

I’m terribly behind on my postings so will try and fill you in on my experiences on the build.

Twenty two homes were constructed on this HFH project. The house I worked on was a part of the row housing section. Each row house consisted of 1 single room of about 10×10 in size. Not large at all and hard to imagine that a family of 4 would be sleeping and living in that space. A small bathroom was in the back as well as an small kitchen area outside. A concrete cistern to catch rainwater off of the roof was also built in the back. Aside from toilet plumbing, there was no running water installed in the home.

When we arrived on Day 1 of the build, the only the foundation and three rows of bricks were laid. On this day, the goal for all houses was to get to row 10 of laid bricks. On Day two, the goal was to lay bricks to row 17.

As mentioned in a previous post, I dropped like a fly and was a vomitous mess in the afternoon of Day 1. It left me with a “praying to God and crying for my mama” experience.

I was given the option by my team leader Hugh to remain in Phnom Penh to rest up during Day 2. I struggled with it for a moment, but went with the team. On a super build, the work is intense and projects are only one vs. two weeks in length, so missing a day would have been huge for me. The thought of doing this left me teary and with support of team members (thanks to Dr. Rikkhi, Sis, Nekane & Sarah for tending to me!) I went in. It was a great decision despite some morning queasiness.

On Day 2, I did not lay a lot of bricks. I took it easy in the morning and by the afternoon, i was up and at it. I hauled a lot bricks and buckets of cement to those who were up on scaffolds laying bricks. I am sure that my arms are buffed up from all of the hauling. Each brick was about 20-30 pounds. At one point when I was hauling 2 buckets of cement, a couple of Cambodian workers made some gestures to me that I interpreted as comments on my heartiness. I stopped, dropped the buckets to show them my biceps and they laughed. Cambodian people are quite small in stature. I feel like a giantess in their presence. I have to chuckle because I think that the Cambodian craftsmen were impressed by the women on my team. We were a team of 7 women, 2 men and our team leader Hugh.

On day 2, scaffolding went up and there were 4 team members up there in the brutal heat. I am surprised that there weren’t more who got heat stroke. Needless to say, the team met the goal of getting to row 17.

Day 3 – on the build, there was an opportunity for each of us to visit the farm and make bricks. I had that opportunity to do that. I spent the morning on the farm and afternoon on the brick task.

The farm was awesome! On the last build in this area (the Jimmy and Roslyn Carter Build), the farm did not exist. My understanding was that they decided to create the farm for people in the area to be more self-sufficient. The farm creates jobs and products sold create revenue for the community.

So what did La Contadina Cambodiana do? I did ploughed the dirt with an ancient tool (think Little House on the Prairie) with a team of Brahman cows, went over it with another team – the device that I had to stand on while leading the cows looked like a giant metal toothbrush. I fished Cambodian style with the giant nets, rode in the back of an ox cart, shoveled manure and planted cabbage. It was delightful. It was also an opportunity to think about all of the labour that goes into farming, how farming in Canada used to be, and how the creation of super farming machines has resulted in the demise of farming. Here it keeps many people employed – it might not be efficient, but it offers something.

I spent the afternoon in the brick making area. This was not easy work. In fact if any one shows up thinking that there easy tasks on a HFH build, they will be shaken into reality quickly. Working in this area, the cement mix concrete, sand and something else) for the bricks had to be made, delivered in wheel barrows and poured into molds. For the mold part, there is a whole set of steps to take. Once in the molds, they sit for a day and are then moved to a sunny area where they are cured (or baked) in the sun for 2 weeks.

I worked primarily on the molding and hauling of bricks to the curing area. I worked with two Kiwi’s – Peter and Nigel, who was about 70 years old. Nigel was a machine. We had to load up carts of bricks which weighed about 700 pounds. With Nigel at the helm of the cart, he was literally running with the filled cart to the curing area. Peter and I were behind trotting along and sweating profusely. After 2 trips with bricks, Peter had to say to Nigel ‘you have to slow down man’.

On the entire build I don’t think I have sweat so much in my life. I was a melty, sweaty mess the entire time. And I loved it – the satisfaction of the hard work and knowing it was for a needy, impoverished family. Having a home will allow them to move forward in their life from scavenging at a dump.

I apologize that there are no photos of any of this. A couple of days ago I had the distressing experience of having my iPhone completely wiped out when I went to get it unlocked. This was despite assurances that this would not happen. I was lied to over money and 800 photos/videos were lost. Photos showing the progression of the build are lost. Hopefully I will add them as friends upload them to Picassa for me to beg, borrow and steal. Thus, the reason for a longer narrative. I hope I haven’t bored you with the descriptions.

Stay tuned for Day 4 of the Khmer Harvest Build.

Cambodia 2011 – HFH Khmer Harvest Build: Day 2, November 16

I have a bit of insomnia – it’s 3:00 am Phnom Penh time. Thought I would give a mini update.

Day 1 – November 15. There are about 10 HFH volunteers, 4 Cambodian craftsmen and 1 translator working on the house.

The day started great but ended up in medic tent in the afternoon. The Canadian (moi) could not take the heat. It’s been 35C at least with super high humidity. I was vomitous, went home and crashed initially but then up until 3. Doc told me it was probably due ro my body being so revved up in trying to cool itself. I joked saying that I found a way to get a new t-shirt as other one was disgusting! TMI, I know, but it is part of my experience.

Day 2 – I was a trooper and went out. Felt on the mend. Spent part of morning in medic tent – nothing happened, just did it as a preventative measure. I got to sit under the fans in the company of the handsome Cambodian Doc, Ritti. Afternoon was awesome!

I have laid and hauled 20 pound bricks, more than you can imagine.

House is going up! Day 3 we’ll build and install roof trusses.

So much to say – love you all and know I am having a great life experience.

Will post pics later.

Baci